1. Ben says they both are a little weird. They have a humor that only they get.
2. Physical attraction, this may be the fact they went skinny dipping early in their relationship. Either way they like each other, especially without clothes on.
3. Ben wants someone worldly and she is well traveled.
4. He wants someone to tell it like it is and Courtney sure does that.
5. Regardless of how she is, Ben is in love with her.