1. Nicki is mature. She has been through marriage before and knows what is takes to last. She knows what she wants, this would be good for Ben.
2. Nicki is extremely fun. She is very laid-back and goes with the flow. You could put Nicki anywhere and she would be happy. She could be a dental hygienist in California and be with Ben at the vineyard.
3. She has a great family. Nicki's family has the perfect amount of concern and trust for their daughter. Her family thinks she has a good judge of character, obviously Ben needs help in that department.
4. They have interesting conversations. Nicki is outgoing and there would never be a dull moment.
5. They have a connection. Ben is always kissing and touching Nicki.